Relationship quizzes
Two people can care just as much and still need different things: one wants reassurance, the other wants space. These quizzes start from research ideas like attachment theory and love styles, and also cover crushes, arguments and friendships, so you can see the patterns you bring to your relationships. All free.
9 quizzes: 6 are completely free. The other 3 are free to take with a free summary, and the full report unlocks for 10 points.
Quizzes in this category
Attachment Style Quiz
Secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant?
Free14 questions · 4 min
Love Language Quiz
Find out how you give and receive love
Free15 questions · 4 min
How Much Do You Really Like Them?
Score how deep your crush goes, from 0 to 100, and find out what it's really made of.
NewExclusive30 questions · 5 min
Relationship Compatibility Test
30 questions. One honest check-up for your relationship.
NewFree30 questions · 6 min
Do They Like Me? Crush Signal Test
22 signals you can actually see. One honest crush score.
NewFree22 questions · 4 min
What Kind of Friend Are You?
24 real-life friendship moments. 6 friend types. Which one are you?
NewFree24 questions · 4 min
Communication & Conflict Style Test
30 real disagreements. Find out what you do when things get tense.
Free30 questions · 6 min
Love Style Test + Love-Brain Index
38 real dating moments. 6 love styles. How love-brained are you, really?
Exclusive38 questions · 6 min
Love Weather Quiz: 16 Love Types
24 real dating moments. 16 kinds of love weather. Which one are you?
Exclusive24 questions · 5 min
Where to start
Want to understand your core pattern? Attachment style
Attachment theory began with research on parents and children and was later applied to adult relationships. In 14 questions you'll see whether you lean secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant, a helpful lens for every other quiz here.
Take Attachment Style QuizIn a relationship? Both take the Love Language Quiz
The Love Language Quiz shows how you tend to give love and how you want to receive it. It's most useful when you both take it and compare. For a full check-up of your relationship, the Relationship Compatibility Test only takes one of you.
Take Love Language QuizStill in the maybe stage? Sort the signals first
The Crush Signal Test weighs 22 behaviors you can actually observe and separates strong evidence from noise. It helps you think clearly, but the only way to really know how someone feels is an honest conversation.
Take Do They Like Me? Crush Signal Test
Further reading
See all articlesArticles related to these quizzes.
Relationship compatibility test: what research says matters
What can a relationship compatibility test tell you? Research on what predicts relationship quality, whether similarity matters, and five areas to talk about.
Do I actually like him, or just the attention? How to tell
Do I actually like him, or is it loneliness, the chase or the idea of him? What research on attraction says, and the six ingredients a crush quiz looks for.
Love-brain vs. limerence: signs, science and a reset
Love-brain is slang, and limerence is the nearest research term. Eight signs you are tilting, what brain studies show, how the index is scored and five resets.
Attachment styles: the 4 types, causes and how they change
Attachment styles are your habits for seeking closeness and safety in relationships. The four types, the two axes behind them, causes, and whether they change.
FAQ
I got anxious or avoidant attachment. Is that bad?
No. Attachment style describes habitual reactions in close relationships. It isn't good or bad, and it can change with experience and with the relationships you're in. Your report explains what each tendency looks like day to day and what you can practice.
Do we need to take these quizzes together?
No, every quiz here works for one person. The Love Language and Communication & Conflict Style quizzes are great for each partner to take and compare. The Relationship Compatibility Test rates the relationship from your point of view and doesn't need your partner's account or data.
Can these quizzes replace couples therapy?
No. They're good for starting conversations and sorting out your own feelings. If a relationship involves ongoing distress, abuse or control, please reach out to a licensed professional or a support hotline.